web02.fireside.fm Sun, 05 Apr 2026 15:52:16 -0500 Fireside (https://fireside.fm) https://dcontario.fireside.fm/tags/your%20resiliency%20matters Tue, 28 May 2019 11:00:00 -0400 Here at DCO Discourse we have discussions related to mental health, addictions, and life. We aim to provide listeners with tools and resources that will help them improve their own mental health and wellness, and support their family members, loved ones, and their community at large. If you would like to provide feedback or request future topics, please use the following link: https://forms.gle/MhSNiyMm2c2xsiv8A. If you are seeking support, we encourage you to visit our website at www.dcontario.org/locations to locate your nearest member centre. af episodic Moving Forward Through Partnerships Distress and Crisis Ontario Here at DCO Discourse we have discussions related to mental health, addictions, and life. We aim to provide listeners with tools and resources that will help them improve their own mental health and wellness, and support their family members, loved ones, and their community at large. If you would like to provide feedback or request future topics, please use the following link: https://forms.gle/MhSNiyMm2c2xsiv8A. If you are seeking support, we encourage you to visit our website at www.dcontario.org/locations to locate your nearest member centre. no mental health, addictions, Ontario, resources, learning, wellness, self-help, well-being Distress and Crisis Ontario ngear@dcontario.org https://dcontario.fireside.fm/24 ff740d0b-b81b-40c5-8a15-8f90e16b4642 Tue, 28 May 2019 11:00:00 -0400 Distress and Crisis Ontario full 1 Distress and Crisis Ontario Our primary task as crisis/distress line call responders first and foremost, is to be supportive and empathetic listeners. This can be immensely rewarding, and the main reason why so many people volunteer for several years. However for some, there can be a personal cost for all that caring. Some might ask, why is it that some people can do shift after shift on crisis/distress lines and others report they feel overwhelmed by some of the callers, or say they need a break as it becomes too much to handle? Why can some people bounce back quickly after taking a particularly difficult call while others might lose sleep at night worrying if they said the right thing or wonder how that person made out? Some people are just able to rebound from almost any adversity and carry on with their lives while for some, it is not so easy. The answer is resilience - our ability to bounce back and adjust to challenges that life sends our way. It is our self-righting mechanism, our ability to restore our equilibrium, when it has 21:15 no The nature of the work that is carried out at crisis/distress lines makes us all vulnerable to feeling the stressors that affect our everyday lives. Our personal situations and stressors can also have an impact on how we react to the work we do, and at times, we need to evaluate why we sometimes feel it becomes too much. In the very insightful presentation by Yvette Perreault, director of the AIDS Bereavement and Resiliency Program of Ontario, you will be able to take a look at how the multiple layers of life events can impact our ability to deal with stressors and what we can do to maintain a healthy level of resiliency. Questions for Further Consideration: As call takers, our own well-being matters. What do you do, on a regular basis, to help foster and maintain a good level of well-being? When we are in the role of helping others and, at the same time experiencing some stress of our own, that feeling can be sometimes magnified. In order to be helpful to others, it is important for us to maintain a balance in our lives and to regularly check to make sure we are attending to our own needs and feelings. Ask yourself what you are doing to keep yourself healthy: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. This can act as a guide or starting point for you to act upon. Taking care of yourself helps to keep your body and mind more ready to deal with situations as they arise. When you are faced with a personal situation that causes anxiety or stress, what is your usual response? How do you feel about the way you typically respond? Upon reflection, what strategies would you consider as helpful tools for coping? People respond differently to stressful situations. For example, some withdraw for a while, some suppress the feeling and try to redirect their energy, and others can try to address the situation 'head on'. We know that there are ways that help make some stressful situations less impactful. Consider the relaxation techniques that we can use, certain people that we can talk to, or tasks we can complete, that could help with the situation. Reflect on previous situations and consider what has helped in the past and what coping strategies might help now. Create a pros/cons list that could help put what seems like a terrible situation, into perspective. Another position to consider when facing a personal situation that causes anxiety or stress is to remember that 'Rome wasn't built in a day'. Whatever the problem is, it took a while to get that way and it will take a while to overcome....baby steps are OK. When trying to assist a caller, a crisis/distress line worker could help the caller to come up with one single step to begin with. The caller is always welcome to call back to talk and let us know how they are doing. What are you doing to help nurture resiliency - in yourself and others, in your family or workplace? What are some of the resources available in your community that you can rely on or recommend to others in a similar situation? Read books and publications and surf the net for ideas that motivate you into developing this inner strength. Identify the self-help groups or support groups that one can access to get inspiration and comfort, when in a difficult situation. Know that there are mental health professionals in the community who can help provide insight into developing skills that build resiliency and provide coaching through challenging situations. When helping a caller on the crisis/distress line, acknowledge and applaud any personal strengths or attributes of the caller....what are their past successes ....reinforce their past successes and their ability to cope in difficult situations. Discuss possible avenues for moving forward and resources available that could help with this. Taking Care of the Heart, Your Resiliency Matters The nature of the work that is carried out at crisis/distress lines makes us all vulnerable to feeling the stressors that affect our everyday lives. Our personal situations and stressors can also have an impact on how we react to the work we do, and at times, we need to evaluate why we sometimes feel it becomes too much. In the very insightful presentation by Yvette Perreault, director of the AIDS Bereavement and Resiliency Program of Ontario, you will be able to take a look at how the multiple layers of life events can impact our ability to deal with stressors and what we can do to maintain a healthy level of resiliency. Questions for Further Consideration: As call takers, our own well-being matters. What do you do, on a regular basis, to help foster and maintain a good level of well-being? When we are in the role of helping others and, at the same time experiencing some stress of our own, that feeling can be sometimes magnified. In order to be helpful to others, it is important for us to maintain a balance in our lives and to regularly check to make sure we are attending to our own needs and feelings. Ask yourself what you are doing to keep yourself healthy: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. This can act as a guide or starting point for you to act upon. Taking care of yourself helps to keep your body and mind more ready to deal with situations as they arise. When you are faced with a personal situation that causes anxiety or stress, what is your usual response? How do you feel about the way you typically respond? Upon reflection, what strategies would you consider as helpful tools for coping? People respond differently to stressful situations. For example, some withdraw for a while, some suppress the feeling and try to redirect their energy, and others can try to address the situation 'head on'. We know that there are ways that help make some stressful situations less impactful. Consider the relaxation techniques that we can use, certain people that we can talk to, or tasks we can complete, that could help with the situation. Reflect on previous situations and consider what has helped in the past and what coping strategies might help now. Create a pros/cons list that could help put what seems like a terrible situation, into perspective. Another position to consider when facing a personal situation that causes anxiety or stress is to remember that 'Rome wasn't built in a day'. Whatever the problem is, it took a while to get that way and it will take a while to overcome....baby steps are OK. When trying to assist a caller, a crisis/distress line worker could help the caller to come up with one single step to begin with. The caller is always welcome to call back to talk and let us know how they are doing. What are you doing to help nurture resiliency - in yourself and others, in your family or workplace? What are some of the resources available in your community that you can rely on or recommend to others in a similar situation? Read books and publications and surf the net for ideas that motivate you into developing this inner strength. Identify the self-help groups or support groups that one can access to get inspiration and comfort, when in a difficult situation. Know that there are mental health professionals in the community who can help provide insight into developing skills that build resiliency and provide coaching through challenging situations. When helping a caller on the crisis/distress line, acknowledge and applaud any personal strengths or attributes of the caller....what are their past successes ....reinforce their past successes and their ability to cope in difficult situations. Discuss possible avenues for moving forward and resources available that could help with this.

]]> The nature of the work that is carried out at crisis/distress lines makes us all vulnerable to feeling the stressors that affect our everyday lives. Our personal situations and stressors can also have an impact on how we react to the work we do, and at times, we need to evaluate why we sometimes feel it becomes too much. In the very insightful presentation by Yvette Perreault, director of the AIDS Bereavement and Resiliency Program of Ontario, you will be able to take a look at how the multiple layers of life events can impact our ability to deal with stressors and what we can do to maintain a healthy level of resiliency. Questions for Further Consideration: As call takers, our own well-being matters. What do you do, on a regular basis, to help foster and maintain a good level of well-being? When we are in the role of helping others and, at the same time experiencing some stress of our own, that feeling can be sometimes magnified. In order to be helpful to others, it is important for us to maintain a balance in our lives and to regularly check to make sure we are attending to our own needs and feelings. Ask yourself what you are doing to keep yourself healthy: physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. This can act as a guide or starting point for you to act upon. Taking care of yourself helps to keep your body and mind more ready to deal with situations as they arise. When you are faced with a personal situation that causes anxiety or stress, what is your usual response? How do you feel about the way you typically respond? Upon reflection, what strategies would you consider as helpful tools for coping? People respond differently to stressful situations. For example, some withdraw for a while, some suppress the feeling and try to redirect their energy, and others can try to address the situation 'head on'. We know that there are ways that help make some stressful situations less impactful. Consider the relaxation techniques that we can use, certain people that we can talk to, or tasks we can complete, that could help with the situation. Reflect on previous situations and consider what has helped in the past and what coping strategies might help now. Create a pros/cons list that could help put what seems like a terrible situation, into perspective. Another position to consider when facing a personal situation that causes anxiety or stress is to remember that 'Rome wasn't built in a day'. Whatever the problem is, it took a while to get that way and it will take a while to overcome....baby steps are OK. When trying to assist a caller, a crisis/distress line worker could help the caller to come up with one single step to begin with. The caller is always welcome to call back to talk and let us know how they are doing. What are you doing to help nurture resiliency - in yourself and others, in your family or workplace? What are some of the resources available in your community that you can rely on or recommend to others in a similar situation? Read books and publications and surf the net for ideas that motivate you into developing this inner strength. Identify the self-help groups or support groups that one can access to get inspiration and comfort, when in a difficult situation. Know that there are mental health professionals in the community who can help provide insight into developing skills that build resiliency and provide coaching through challenging situations. When helping a caller on the crisis/distress line, acknowledge and applaud any personal strengths or attributes of the caller....what are their past successes ....reinforce their past successes and their ability to cope in difficult situations. Discuss possible avenues for moving forward and resources available that could help with this.

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