web01.fireside.fm Wed, 08 Apr 2026 16:10:31 -0500 Fireside (https://fireside.fm) https://dcontario.fireside.fm/tags/understanding%20loss Sun, 24 Feb 2019 14:00:00 -0500 Here at DCO Discourse we have discussions related to mental health, addictions, and life. We aim to provide listeners with tools and resources that will help them improve their own mental health and wellness, and support their family members, loved ones, and their community at large. If you would like to provide feedback or request future topics, please use the following link: https://forms.gle/MhSNiyMm2c2xsiv8A. If you are seeking support, we encourage you to visit our website at www.dcontario.org/locations to locate your nearest member centre. af episodic Moving Forward Through Partnerships Distress and Crisis Ontario Here at DCO Discourse we have discussions related to mental health, addictions, and life. We aim to provide listeners with tools and resources that will help them improve their own mental health and wellness, and support their family members, loved ones, and their community at large. If you would like to provide feedback or request future topics, please use the following link: https://forms.gle/MhSNiyMm2c2xsiv8A. If you are seeking support, we encourage you to visit our website at www.dcontario.org/locations to locate your nearest member centre. no mental health, addictions, Ontario, resources, learning, wellness, self-help, well-being Distress and Crisis Ontario ngear@dcontario.org https://dcontario.fireside.fm/8 57f15da8-7e55-406c-8756-c457c608caae Sun, 24 Feb 2019 14:00:00 -0500 Distress and Crisis Ontario full 1 Distress and Crisis Ontario When someone loses a loved one, goes through a divorce, or loses their job, there can be numerous ways in which the individual feels and experiences the loss. Grief is a normal response to any loss and can affect anyone in unexpected ways. It is an emotion that everyone will experience at some time in their life. Since grieving is an individual experience, everyone will go through the process dependent upon varying factors and coping mechanisms. Understanding the grief process and becoming cognisant of what to expect, may assist distress line volunteers to identify effective strategies to support callers who are working through their journey of bereavement. 37:33 no <p>Karen Fisher (RN, BScN &amp; the Director of Care at the Hospice Wellington in Guelph Ontario), a certified Palliative Care Nurse with over 10 years of experience, defines the various ways in which bereaved individuals may work through their loss. She explains the emotional, physical, behavioural, societal, and spiritual responses to grief. She explains key concepts that help us understand the difference between what might be considered a normal grief response in comparison to an acute grief response. Questions for Further Consideration: Have you experienced a significant loss in your life? How did it affect you? Think back to the various responses you may have had and reflect upon whether your reactions were emotional, physical, behavioural, societal, or spiritual. Which responses stand out for you? 2. What were some of the helpful ways others supported you in this time? Was it helpful to share your story with others? Typically people respond to this by saying they just needed to talk and be heard. A distressed caller often just needs to repeat their story and have someone there to validate the loss and the pain. Putting a label to what their emotions helps them feel someone cares while in this moment of grief. 3. There are many myths about grief; one is that grief should last about a year. Fact: There is no right or wrong time frame for grieving. The length of time is purely individual and differs for each person. Reminder – Dr. Allan Wolfelt’s Six Needs of Mourners Acknowledging the loss - say it out loud Embracing the pain, “I’m hurting” and ignoring societal expectations regarding bereavement Remembering the person (or thing) who has left you Developing a new self-identity Searching for meaning but not to the extent of answering “Why?” Accepting and allowing support</p> Understanding Loss Karen Fisher (RN, BScN & the Director of Care at the Hospice Wellington in Guelph Ontario), a certified Palliative Care Nurse with over 10 years of experience, defines the various ways in which bereaved individuals may work through their loss. She explains the emotional, physical, behavioural, societal, and spiritual responses to grief. She explains key concepts that help us understand the difference between what might be considered a normal grief response in comparison to an acute grief response. Questions for Further Consideration: Have you experienced a significant loss in your life? How did it affect you? Think back to the various responses you may have had and reflect upon whether your reactions were emotional, physical, behavioural, societal, or spiritual. Which responses stand out for you? 2. What were some of the helpful ways others supported you in this time? Was it helpful to share your story with others? Typically people respond to this by saying they just needed to talk and be heard. A distressed caller often just needs to repeat their story and have someone there to validate the loss and the pain. Putting a label to what their emotions helps them feel someone cares while in this moment of grief. 3. There are many myths about grief; one is that grief should last about a year. Fact: There is no right or wrong time frame for grieving. The length of time is purely individual and differs for each person. Reminder – Dr. Allan Wolfelt’s Six Needs of Mourners Acknowledging the loss - say it out loud Embracing the pain, “I’m hurting” and ignoring societal expectations regarding bereavement Remembering the person (or thing) who has left you Developing a new self-identity Searching for meaning but not to the extent of answering “Why?” Accepting and allowing support

]]> Karen Fisher (RN, BScN & the Director of Care at the Hospice Wellington in Guelph Ontario), a certified Palliative Care Nurse with over 10 years of experience, defines the various ways in which bereaved individuals may work through their loss. She explains the emotional, physical, behavioural, societal, and spiritual responses to grief. She explains key concepts that help us understand the difference between what might be considered a normal grief response in comparison to an acute grief response. Questions for Further Consideration: Have you experienced a significant loss in your life? How did it affect you? Think back to the various responses you may have had and reflect upon whether your reactions were emotional, physical, behavioural, societal, or spiritual. Which responses stand out for you? 2. What were some of the helpful ways others supported you in this time? Was it helpful to share your story with others? Typically people respond to this by saying they just needed to talk and be heard. A distressed caller often just needs to repeat their story and have someone there to validate the loss and the pain. Putting a label to what their emotions helps them feel someone cares while in this moment of grief. 3. There are many myths about grief; one is that grief should last about a year. Fact: There is no right or wrong time frame for grieving. The length of time is purely individual and differs for each person. Reminder – Dr. Allan Wolfelt’s Six Needs of Mourners Acknowledging the loss - say it out loud Embracing the pain, “I’m hurting” and ignoring societal expectations regarding bereavement Remembering the person (or thing) who has left you Developing a new self-identity Searching for meaning but not to the extent of answering “Why?” Accepting and allowing support

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